The final preparations...

As the clock continues to tick down down down, there are a few things that I need to make sure get taken care of.  I shall make a list for not only my benefit, but for all you future Airmen out there.

1. Memory work!  If you are in DEP, you are given a booklet or pamphlet of everything that you need to know.  Know it!  It's not a joke- you don't want to be the DBT- DirtBagTrainee.

2. Physical prep- I've been slacking and my muscles, though angry with me now, will be glad that I've stepped back into workouts and running as the weeks dwindle down.

3. Power of Attorney.  You are not too young or too old to do this- grant to someone you ABSOLUTELY TRUST.  For instance, I'm asking my Dad since he's been there for me for 27 years so far and he'd make good decisions for me if need be (also, his name is already on my account haha!).  

4.  a Will-  I don't know what will happen, maybe nothing will happen, but it is far better to be prepared for anything and everything.

5.  Where is all that stuff going?  If you are older, like me, you may have a few (lots) items in your possession that can't just hang around while you are in BMT/Tech School/duty- I had to move out of my apartment, store a few items (talk about purging), move back in with parents, and donate donate donate.  Now, if you are recently coming from high school, you will probably not have all these things to deal with- but make sure you discuss with parents/guardians about what you are keeping and where you are keeping it.

6.  Don't forget your relationships with friends and family.  They may not want to be overwhelmed with Air Force stuff, but real life goes on regardless.  Answer their questions, sure, but spend quality time with them doing what you always do.  You'll be grateful for it later.

7.  Have a going away party.  This I have yet to do- but I am planning it!  One neat idea I found (wish it was my idea) was to get blank postcards- at the party people can write you messages and someone can send them to you throughout BMT once you get your address to them.  I found double-blank ones (on the front and back), so people can decorate them, too.  There are also a few kids that I know (family and friends) that will have fun coloring them for me :)

That's what I have so far- I'll add on when I think of anything else!

A bit late but...

As I missed Veteran's Day on this blog of mine, I thought I would post a video that was done in honor of the SemperFiFund, and to start getting everyone in the Christmas spirit. 

 

From this YouTube video :)

 

I wanted to share a video that was shared by the Hammond Police Dept. on Facebook, but I couldn't get one to come up- that was a tear jerker! 

 

Also: in honor of my nephew (I'll claim him as such), Lenny DeRegules, who is currently serving with the USMC, please check out the SemperFiFund website.  It's not only for the USMC, they help members of all branches of service.  Click here to learn all about them :)

 

Don't wait a whole year to thank a service member.  I think what has been sacrificed is worth more than one day.

 

On a personal note: someone was relaying a conversation to me in which one person said that military service members shouldn't get full pension after 20 years (my friend had made the comment that they should get at least half pension after 10, which spurred the other comments).  He compared the work that military personnel do to those of factory workers (lets be honest- there are some vets working in factories that deserve more than that) and asked the question, "how is their (military personnel) job harder? Why give them pension at all?"  My friend then talked about the sacrifice involved, and so on, but I don't think it got through or opened the mind of the other.

I didn't respond much then, but it has been weighing on my mind since hearing these comments.  Though I have yet to ship off to BMT, I've been packing, selling, and preparing for leaving.  I've shed tears for what I'll be leaving behind, and surely there are more coming.  It comes down to this: I don't HAVE to leave.  I am willingly giving up comforts, possessions, time with loved ones, and so much more in order to serve a higher purpose.  I am willing to be put through mindgames and tests and trials and training in order to do a job to protect this country and those who live here- for people who I don't know and will never meet. 

 

No matter what my job will be, my core values will always remain Integrity First, Service Before Self, and Excellence in All We Do.  Service before self- that's to you, person who thinks what military personnel are on the same level as a factory worker.  A factory worker gets to go home every day/night (working long shifts, but have you seen the mid-shifts at Air Bases???).  See his/her family.  Go out for drinks with friends.  Go to the park with their kids.  Maybe work on a holiday, but that time is always made up.  Military personnel don't.  They/We lose time spent working to keep you and our country safe.  Don't get me wrong.  I'm not trying to discount anyone who doesn't have a military job (or factory workers), but the level of sacrifice is completely different and comes with much higher stakes.

 

This ended up being much longer than I originally planned.  That's what happens with me and tangents!  On a brighter note:  here's a moment to treasure. 

 





Instant bonds and friendship

I'm not even in the Air Force yet (officially, anyway), and already it's instant comraderie when I meet or chat with someone in the Air Force, or even in other branches! 

I got this little gem from Cup of Joe:
Kristi - thanks for the drink! It's good to know people back home are thinking of us. It's still pretty hot in Africa, so I'll probably stick to the iced coffee. Good luck in BMT. It can be pretty rough, so just remember not to let it get you down and that BMT won't last forever.

How awesome to be encouraged from Africa??? Who else can say that? (Oh wait, I already have a dear friend in the Peace Corps there- I can say it twice!)  I meet recruiters from various branches (at the school I work at) and while some jokingly try to "steal" me from the Air Force, they are always pleasant to talk to and wish me luck.  Although my favorite day is  when the AF recruiters are here! 

Something of my time left

As I write this post, I have about 3 months left before I leave for BMT.  (81 Days!!!!) 

Some thoughts running through my head:

Gosh people must be sick of me talking about the Air Force.

Too bad.  All I want to do is talk about the Air Force.

Oh look- groups of people going into the Air Force who want to talk about the Air Force!

** serious note time**

It struck me that I have an "expiration date" on my current life.  How scary/exciting to think about- I'm literally closing one chapter and beginning an entirely new one, maybe even a new book.  I'm moving out of an apartment, without having a forwarding address (well, ok, my parents'), keeping only what I absolutely want to keep, saying good bye to dear friends and loved ones, and everyone elses' life will go on as normal and I won't be as much a part of their lives any more.

I'm not disappearing from the face of the planet, I know that, but even in college I experienced the sensation of not really being involved.  During that time I had breaks and holidays to come home and visit with friends.  In the Air Force, I shall be (hopefully- knock on wood) in tech school for over a year without the opportunity to come home as often.  Any relationship I currently have shall be reduced to letters, texting, phone calls, and Facebook.  I'm left wondering who will go that extra mile and stay connected with me... and vice versa. 

I went shopping yesterday- I texted a photo of what I was trying on to my sister (as I usually do- she's brilliant with opinions).  The reply: "Cute!  but why are you buying stuff now?" 

Kind of a smack in the face.  My life isn't ending, people.  It's adapting.  It's changing.  Not ending.  Yes, I'll be getting rid of many many items that I will no longer need or want,; but there are certain things I'll still need or want and those I will keep, some I'll have shipped to me.  To another end, buying things/shopping/doing adds a normalcy to my life that is harder to grasp since being in DEP.  I'm not going to be stuck wearing my uniform forever!  In Tech school I'll be able to wear civvies :)  After Tech school, I'll have a life again, albeit a military one, during which I can wear civvies as well.  I'll still be the same cute Kristi (oh so humble) with the same fashion sense.  My life isn't being put on hold; there will be no pause button; and while somethings are changing now (like working out more often), I'm still me. 

    

Stop Saying "Sorry!"

There are a few things that I need to change in my vocabulary to adapt to the military way of speaking- or so I hear (and take advice from) my former-military friends and websites I view (Kyle Gott's awesome videos and AimHighErin to name a couple).  Without further ado, my list of necessary changes:

1) Sorry doesn't exist in the service.  Instead, say, "I apologize."  My Navy friend likes to poke fun at me/give me a hard time about this one.  Just trying to help me out!  (I say sorry a lot... especially in the place of excuse me.) 

2) Bathroom. Ladies/Gents. Restroom.  Any form thereof- it's a LATRINE now!  I hope I won't be Latrine Queen...

3) Sir sandwiches- Sir, yes Sir!- big no no!  Reporting statements and Yes/No Sir/Ma'am only.  Prepare for the wrath if you call someone the incorrect gender...

4) Yep. Ok. Yeah. I already have issues with this when I'm on the phone and have been trying to correct myself for 2-3 years...  I'm sure the MTI's won't have such a problem. 

5) Hats shall be called "covers."

6) Smiling/laughing shall be no more!  Military bearing will be instilled in me from Day 1- This, I think, will be tough, as I like to encourage those around me with smiles.  I'm sure we will come up with other signals and such.

7) I'll learn a whole new language of acronyms and military phrases as noted in this article about someone's twin daughters graduating from BMT. 

This all starts the day/night I arrive:

The music is so calming in the beginning... :)

 

What else?  Am I missing anything so far? (Let's be honest, the list is pretty small so far!)  Please comment below and share the wealth!  

Cup of Joe

Send a cup of coffee to the troops!  As a coffee lover, I think this is phenomenal.  Check it out!  Green Beans Coffee lets you buy a cup of joe for random military members overseas (there's advanced logarithms involved- yay math!), or you can send a Green Beans Coffee Card (gift card) to a dear friend or loved one you know is serving.  :)  You can visit the website to see where they are located. 

Send a Cup of Joe and then read the stories :)

(enjoy the random pictures of coffee now :)

DEP tag

Alright- so this is should be a video- but I have neither the time nor the equipment for that- so blog post it is! 

1. Name, Age, and Height?
             Kristin Hingstrum, age 27, 64" (5' 4'')

2. Where are you shipping from?
             I'll be shipping from Davenport, IA, through the MEPS at Camp Dodge in Des Moines, IA.

3. What was your parents' reaction?
             My parents' reaction was phenomenal.  My step-mom has always supported me, but my dad's reaction surprised me the most.  I really didn't expect his overwhelming pride and support for my decision.

4. Ship date, rank, DEP date?
             BMT will begin Jan. 14, 2014.  I'll go in as an E-3 (well, after BMT) due to my college credits.  I DEP'ed on June 26, 2013.

5. Something memorable that happened at MEPS?
             The most memorable parts would have to be my conversations with my roommate (a Navy shipper) and also receiving my DLAB score.  I'm glad I was able to see and hear about the emotions of my roommate before she shipped- I think that will help when it's my turn.  I hope to be as encouraging as she was for me if I end up rooming with a DEPper that night.  When I got my score, my jaw just dropped.  End of story.

6. Best/worst part about DEP?
             The best part of DEP- meeting the other DEPpers and helping each other out.  The worst part- HURRY UP AND WAIT!

7. Something you'll miss while you're at bootcamp?
              I'll miss my friends and family the most, along with this weirdo:

  I shall also miss coffee- a lot.  **edit: I shall also greatly miss my "littles" in dance class- I've helped them grow and learn and I can't even begin to describe how much I'll miss each and every one of them!!!

8. What are you looking forward to?
              I'm looking forward to everything I'll learn at BMT and tech school.  I'm actually looking forward to the gas chamber, as odd as that is- maybe because I'll be more than halfway done at that point?  I'm also looking forward to getting my uniforms- ABU's and Blues- means I'm part of something bigger than myself.  Aim High - Fly - Fight - Win! 

9. How are you preparing for bootcamp?
              I've been reading all kinds of blogs and watching youtube videos- AimHighErin and Kyle Gott have been the most helpful.  I've been chatting with people I've met on the Facebook pages for Air Force DEP and the AF WingMoms- everyone has been helpful and supportive.  Fitness-wise I've been doing the Insanity videos with my step-sister, working on pushups and situps with various apps, and running, running, running.  Did I mention running? 

So, if you are a fellow DEPper- same questions to you!  Make a video or post on your blog if you are as anti-tech as I am ;) 

GRADUATION POST- Looking to the future

Source is here.

I did it!  Or, rather, I will do it, since I haven't even gone to BMT as I type this.  However, I wanted to share with you information about graduation so you will know where to go and what to do!



There are events Thursday through Sunday of WOT 8 (8th week of training)-  Hopefully, I will also have some day passes for the weekend to get off base and eat real food- I mean, spend time with family! 

Here is the official schedule of graduation events put together by AF Wing Moms.  This website also has information about lodging, things to do, travel tips, and a great collection of articles in the "perspectives" section. 

For the OFFICIAL official graduation schedule, you can find it at the USAF BMT  website, as well as a plethera of other information.

If you want to buy swag, this website is great- Basic Training Store.  It is for every branch in the military, too!  Everything from buttons, to coffee mugs, to banners and t-shirts.You can even add MY picture to it (so you'll have to order once I'm there). 

Unlike high school and college graduations, I will not be able to come and find you after the ceremonies.  I shall continue to stand at attention or parade rest until you find me for what's called the "tap out"- you will literally have to find me and tap my shoulder before I can move and hug you.  A great guide for this process is here, my favorite website for all things BMT.  (Really, check out her other posts- AimHighErin.com was part of the inspiration for me to join.)  I may know some wingmen that won't have family coming, or are a day late- I may ask you to tap her out and hug her, too. 

Also, I know I have sent out messages to people asking if they'd like to come to graduation.  I'm not looking to build a cheering section (but, hey- that'd be great), but I need some info if you do want to come.  The Air Force will do background checks on all adults attending, so I would need your full name, DL # and state issuing, and your birthdate.  You can give me your info and not come, since it is a long time from now and schedule for next week can be tough.  It is simply easier to add on to the list now rather than at BMT. Which brings me to another point. Whatever you do, DO NOT SURPRISE YOUR AIRMAN AT GRADUATION. There are countless stories of Airmen missing their families for entire days because they weren't planning on them being there- so they might join other wingmen or simply go off to do their own thing only to find out later (we won't have our phones) that people were here for them. 

**I go to BMT on January 14, 2014, and should graduate the weekend of March 13, 2014. 

How are you doing?

What will it be like when I'm gone?  How will I feel?  More importantly, how will you feel? 

My friends' feelings on me being in the Air Force

 

**Plug**- A1C Kyle Gott has an absolutely wonderful YouTube channel.  Check out the video about how his friends felt about him being in the Air Force and being away for so long.  He has other videos, too, about his family and other experiences in the Air Force.

My Mother's perspective on me being in the Air Force

I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments section, as well.  Do you have any concerns or questions?  I started this blog to help me stay connected with you, my friends and family.  I'll ramble on here as much as I do in person, maybe if I get tech savy I can start some videos, too... but that won't be in the near future. :) 

Physical Conditioning: Getting Ready

In attempts to prepare for the PT requirements of BMT, I have begun a semi-regimen (it's not exact nor a science quite yet).  Starting June 2013 I began doing the Insanity DVD's with my step-sister.  Oh. My. Goodness.  I couldn't walk normally for a week, and parents of my dance classes would laugh at every cringe- some understood my pain.  BUT that's not all PT is- there is running, also!  Oh glorious running... not.  I have never been a runner.  My fastest mile time in high school was 10:13, I get bored running on the track, and when I listen to music I get way off beat because I start dancing in my head and my body is used to counting and moving with the music.  I have also been told I run like a clydesdale (I'm very grounded- I also use this as an excuse for my poor leaps, yet awesome tap sounds).  It doesn't make a whole lot of sense- I am good with cardio workouts- I even taught BodyJam classes (like Zumba but not as Latin).  My body simply seems to be against running.

Which was fine until I enlisted.  Now I have to run, and run within a time limit.  Along with other requirements, the bare minimum is to run 1.5 miles in 13:56 or less (for females). Doesn't seem that bad, right?  I'm sure it isn't if you are used to running. 

Well, to help with my running I downloaded the C25K app and began following that.  That little voice on the app is far too chipper- she mocks me, I swear!  I haven't been following that as religiously as Insanity, but semi-regularly.  Slowly, my running is showing improvements.  I've read some articles to help with breathing and pace... now I need speed!  My 1.5 miles is under 14 minutes, so that's a plus.

My next step: I just signed up for the Lagomarcino Cocoa Beano 5K in Moline, IL.  Now I'll have a goal to work towards, and a fleece after!  (I like warm things.)  Another perk: motivation.  It's something I've been struggling with since being in the DEP.  My brother is the one who suggested I run it, and I hope to get some other people involved, as well.  When I lack motivation now, I've been able to find other people to help me out, either through the facebook page or people I've just met.  Pretty awesome support :) 

 

The Philosophy Behind it All

Many people have asked me why I joined the Air Force, and understandably so for many reasons.  I've been told I don't seem "military" (is that a compliment or not... I haven't decided), there's a war going on-didn't I know that?, and that I just don't seem like I could take orders.  I've also heard some choice comments of: I'm doing it to get a man (seriously?) I already have a degree- why join? It's pointless; and I apparently will turn into a heartless killer following orders.     

Yeah, I guess that's as far from "military" as it gets...

 

Depending on who was speaking, I ignored some comments and remarks.  Others I took more to heart or felt a "jolt" when they said it.  It was as if that person (no names for a reason) had no faith in me whatsoever.  This person who knew me so well really thinks that?  Instead of believing that person, though, I took on the challenge, "Well, I will prove him wrong!"  Mostly, though, I felt the urge to explain my reasons and hope to expand these limited views on reasons and results of joining the military. 

So- starting from the beginning let's follow my thought process on joining and the philosophy behind it (what?  I have actual, logical reasoning behind this decision?- who knew!).  I had never before intended to join the Air Force, or any other branch of the military.  I remember a call in high school from an Air Force recruiter to whom I literally laughed about the idea of me enlisting.  Joke's on me!  My stepmother is actually the one that gave me the idea to look into the Air Force again during the spring of 2013.  My hours had just been reduced dramatically from my "main" parttime job, I had been trying for a while to find a fulltime job unsuccessfully, and I was dissatisfied with the living from paycheck to paycheck for 4 years since graduating college- College!  I'm a college grad who is struggling with what to do.  I need to pay off student loans, so I didn't want to go to grad school to incur more.  The whole job thing put a damper on paying off the current loans.  Quite frankly, I was sick of it.  Am sick of it.  People around me with no goals made it so easy for me to ignore my own.  I wasn't moving forward- I was stuck.  Dormant.  Lethargic.  hmmm.  Air Force you say?  If you read this entry, you will see how nervous I was about talking to the recruiter and going through that process.  What I love most about the Air Force after speaking to the recruiter and researching on my own has to be the core values:  Integrity First, Service Before Self, and Excellence in All We Do.  If you read through them, you will see exactly what I've been missing in my civilian work and home life.  On top of that, since DEPping in, I have joined multiple groups on Facebook devoted to the Air Force- DEP, AFWingMoms, and a group for women in the Air Force.  The support is phenomenal.  Any questions, concerns, worries- everything can be addressed and you have instant friends and acquaintances who just want to make your journey better/easier/supported. 

But, I'm getting a little off topic.  So:  more on the philosophical reasoning behind joining the Air Force.

Yes, I sit and pondered all this by the window.



 

 

While at Saint Mary's, I took an Intro to Philosophy course.  We studied the history, famous philosophers, and how we could apply that knowledge to our decisions today.  I couldn't tell you a lot of details right now, but the gist is what is important.  The lesson that stuck with me most was the idea of keeping/taking what you need to survive and pass on or share anything extra to those who need it.  Don't buy all the luxury items, spend time doing things that aren't beneficial to anyone else, etc.  I catch myself thinking about this a lot.  I live paycheck to paycheck, but do what I can for others- donate when I can and participate in for-charity auctions, that kind of thing.  What else is there, though?  The Air Force is another answer to this philosophical question.  I will be able to use my skills, experiences, intelligence, and training to benefit those around me.  I can provide a positive impact on the world- a measurable one, at that.  Positive impact is something I strive for, especially when I work with my dance students, college students, or my friends' children.  Though very nervous for BMT, I hope that I can have a positive impact on my fellow wingmen, particularly the younger ones who may be more nervous than I am. 

 

The benefits of the Air Force will be wonderful, as well.  I can't say I didn't consider them at all, but they were not a main push for my enlistment.  The ability to get a second bachelor's degree and a master's is quite exciting- I am a lifelong learner.  :) 

 

When I broke the news to one of my prior-military students he laughed in my face, "Enlisting?! Get ready for a pay cut!"  Actually, no it's not, but thank you for thinking you know more about my financial situation than I do and assuming that I haven't studied the ranks of pay already.  I was also pushed to go officer by several people.  Again, thanks for the input but I know myself, what I'm currently capable of (both as an officer/applicant and during the process of application- hectic time!), and what I want to get out of my career in the Air Force.  Enlisting gave me the best option for now, and I'll pursue different opportunities as they present themselves. 

 

If anyone reading this is considering joining the military, I'll end this post with this advice:  Make your own decisions.  You will certainly hear many opinions and ideas, and yes, they will have an effect on you.  But do your research, think carefully about your goals, make a pro/con list (I made several- I was obsessed), and in the end make the best decision for YOU.  Don't do it just for the benefits or the money, because you may not enjoy your experience if you enlist for the wrong reasons.  Take those rose colored glasses off and research/think/debate/consider all you can!   

 



 

Source here.



 

What about while I'm at BMT???

I know all of you are asking, "Kristi, how can I stay in touch with you while you are gone?"

(At least, I'm pretending you are all asking me that, or thinking that, or just curious.)

While at BMT, trainees (that's me) will not have a lot of time for communication.  Absolutely no texting, emailing, photo-sending, snapchatting, tweeting, facebooking, smoke-signalling, morse coding, etc.  Phone calls are few and far between (IF our flight is good and performing well), and timed.  I'll get 10 minutes (or so I hear-I'll update once I actually experience this) to plug in, turn on cell phone, and make a call.  Here is the factsheet on cell phone use at BMT.  I will have a call list- probabaly family first, going on to the next person if no one answers.  I have already decided that if a wingman doesn't have a phone, I will be sharing so my time will be even shorter. *Just heard we'll each get 10 minutes :)  Love how helpful past BMT-ers are!

From this source.



Letters- ah, I hear we will be living for mail call.  Mail call and mealtime.  Please send letters.  I don't have an address yet.  I'll know when I get there and the night I get there I believe I make a call to let my family know what it is.  I'll be barking it- I believe it will be a rather rude phone call so maybe let the machine get it?  My plan is to give my parents access to facebook so they can post my address so everyone can see.  I'll say this now- please write!  Even if it's a postcard- anything is grand.  Well, except for...

THINGS TO NOT SEND TO BMT:

• Care packages including any kinds of food.  We open packages in front of our MTI (Military Training Instructor), and they don't take kindly to food being sent.  I'll either make myself sick trying to eat everything in whatever time limit they set or MTI's will take it.  Please don't send anything food related while I'm at BMT (Tech school will be another matter :) ) 
• Anything personal- unless I ask for it like shampoo or hair gel (apperently tough to get the right kind), I can get what I need at the BX or the mini-mall. 
• Anything large and difficult to store.  I will have a drawer and a wall locker- that's it.  No trunk like they show in the movies- anything I receive I will need to be able to stash away neatly.  If you have pictures to send, it's recommended to upload them on a word document so you can print out multiples and they fold up nicely :) 
• FOOD- I can't stress this enough.  I've heard horror stories.  I'll get chewed out and made to throw perishible items away... unless the MTI's come up with a better plan. 
• Nothing tacky/gushy/funny/cute- make it tasteful, people.  I don't want MTI's to know me for my mail!  If you look at the Q&A provided by AF WingMoms, some MTI's may encourage you to fill letters with glitter and confetti (as per their sense of humors)... DON'T DO IT!!! Please!
• No gifts, even if I'm there over Christmas.  I will not have a lot of packing room as I go straight to tech school after graduation weekend.  If you come to graduation, feel free to bring anything then, but please bear in mind I may ask you to ship it to me at tech school (nope, no address for that yet). 

Questions?  If in doubt, KISS- Keep It Simple, Sister.  Really, I'll love getting letters and cards from you- Please don't be offended if I don't return the favor.  We aren't scheduled "writing home time" and I'll probably use what time I can for study and sleep.  If you don't hear from me, keep sending!  I'll be better able to reply at tech school, where I'll have a little bit more free time. 

You may also be able to find pictures of me (or at least of my flight/brother flight/squadron) on the Facebook site for the Air Force. By me, I mean possibly a photo of me in a group of my flight or during training. Sometimes they post photos on the USAF BMT facebook page, or there may be some info on the AFWingMoms page. There will also be a group for my training squadron and flight, which you will be able to search for once you get my information. The AFWingMoms site/facebook page will be extremely helpful in searching for this and any other information. They have weekly Q&A sessions with former MTI's, recruiters, and other Air Force personnel. They also update on what happens in each WOT (Week of Training), so you will know what I'm going through!

*Immediate disclaimer- I may not be emotionally able to communicate the way I normally would with you.  If you get a phone call, please bear with me as I have no idea what type of emotional state I will be in.  If you get a letter, not only will you be one of the lucky few, but it will probably be disjointed as we will not have time to write a whole letter- it will be time I steal before bed or if the MTI is feeling gracious. I will probably also be exhausted, and will not want to relay a whole week of training to you. If I'm not communicative, start blabbing! I may not want to talk, but my ears will be VERY good at listening by then and hearing about your day may be just what I need.  It may be the case that you can't get me to shut up, but as I have no idea, I'd love it if you can be prepared, too.  Maybe anytime you think of me, write down where you were and why and keep that list by the phone. 

The waiting...

Once you are in the DEP call- that's Delayed Entry Program- it's pretty much a waiting game.  Your job is to stay qualified- no trouble!  "Be safe" is the quote my recruiter uses- take it to heart!  You are now government property.  Well, maybe not officially, as you can back out with good reason, but whatever service you are in will not appreciate it.  Your recruiter has spent a lot of time working with you to complete  your paperwork and get you to MEPS and the military spent money on your stay at MEPS- hotel, food, medical test, and all the staff members that worked with you there. 

Anyway, I'm moving on a little bit more to the emotional ride I've been on so far, as DEP gives you time to reflect.  Going to MEPS, I was nervous- I'm always anxious before a test (more like excited, I suppose- I REALLY like taking tests and preparing for them, but no matter what I worry how I will do).  The whole two days, though, were not as bad as I had anticipated.  The highlight was coming home- I had planned to meet my stepsister for dinner when I got home.  She surprised me by arranging to have my parents and another sister with her family come to dinner.  Earlier, I had found out that family members can come to the swearing in ceremony if they want to sit around at MEPS and wait- I didn't know that ahead of time but I was OK with no one being there.  Other recruits parents were there and in tears (of pride, joy, those kind of tears) and I know I couldn't hold it in if my family was present.  That was a huge rush in and of itself listening to the commander speak and then actually taking the oath.  It sunk in a little then, but now that some time has passed I can reflect more on the words and the meaning. 

Anyone going into the military- be it guard, reserves, Air Force, Army, Marines, Navy, Coast Guard... we are laying down our lives to put the lives of those around us and our nation first.  I used to think that I could never do that- never hold a gun, never take orders, never step in front of an innocent life to protect them.  Now I am looking forward to the opportunities- I will bear arms to protect those I love (family, friends, countrymen, fellow wingmen and other military brethren), I will follow the command of true leaders who are also looking out for me, and if I have to lay down my life for those I'm protecting, if there was no other way, I would.  Now, some jobs in the military are administrative.  Many will never see battle- but we all have the same basic training that prepares us if the need arises.  I'm actually waiting for a job that will put me in more danger than a desk job, but no- I will probably never be at the front.  I will, however, be supporting those that are putting their lives at a greater risk and I think that is damn well worth it. 

I've been critiqued.  I've heard the negative things people say about the military.  I've had people say to me, "Oh, I can never do that.  I would never hurt another man or woman.  It's cruel/horrible/awful to think you could be ordered to do that."  Well, have someone point a gun at your child and see what happens.  The way I see it, when I took my oath I swore to protect the nation and it's people as if they were my children (no, this is not a god complex).  I will also no longer be a civilian- I will be trained to take orders until I am ready to be the one giving them.  I have a feeling that the military mindset is completely different from that of a civilian.  There are higher stakes- everyone does things in life they don't like- day-to-day, in a job, etc.  This is my job and I will perform it to the best of my ability.  Now, I'm not saying I'll be ordered to kill-it's not likely I'll be in that situation and yet that's where the critic's mind goes.  I feel like I sound rather high and mighty- maybe I am, I'm not sure.  It hurts when my brother says that I'll have less support from him if I do certain jobs (and yes, it did affect a few of my decisions), but, and this is cliche, I look forward to being able to say I defend your right to your opinion and the right to voice them.  In another post I'll delve a little more in the philosophical background of my thinking. 

Granted, I have experienced mostly overwhelming and wonderful support from people.  Family and friends I have told were mostly surprised at first, then very encouraging.  The shock value was entertaining for a while, I must say.  My father is supremely proud of me- I don't think I could have taken this leap without his unhindered support and encouragement.  My step-mom and family have been phenomenal as well.  She's the one that first initiated these thoughts in my head.  My stepsister has been there to help me prepare physically and mentally every step of the way so far- I know she and my sister would go to BMT with me if they could!  My nephew (well, we call him a nephew) has recently shipped for his basic training with the USMC.  His story is definitely one to inspire, as well. 

Even strangers, when they hear about my decision to join (my family really likes to share), will both congratulate me and thank me for my service. It's amazing to feel that support from people I don't really know- I've connected with people online- current military members, parents, and DEP-pers just like me- instant friendship- like joining a club.  If I could get students to feel a connection like this with student life groups on campus- those clubs would be booming.  I think it's pretty unique though- we've all had similar experiences, fears, worries, impatience, questions, and feelings.  We know what the next person will be going through and are ready to help guide the way.  Of course, there is that surge of jealousy when someone gets booked the job you want, but that is out of our control and we are always happy for them.  It will add to our own excitement when the time comes!   

      

All about... MEPS!

The next experience to catalog is MEPS, or Military Entrance Processing Station.  If you are about to go to MEPS yourself, I hope this will help you know what to expect.  Your recruiter should fill in a lot of the blanks since they want you to be prepared for everything, but anything left out I hope I cover for you here!  So, for those who don't know- MEPS is where you take all of your tests (unless you took the ASVAB in high school), medical exams, and background checks.  It makes for a long day, so be ready to hurry up and wait!

Image from www.mepcom.army.mil

If you've read my last post, you'll know I had a delay when going to MEPS.  Once I got the all clear from the commander, it was the next week that I went- June 25-26-Tuesday to Wednesday.  Usually your recruiter will drive you to MEPS, unless you come to a different arrangement.  My recruiter did not go with me- he arranged for another recruiter from the area who was already going up to Iowa City with recruits, where we'd meet up with another recruiter to go all the way to Des Moines.   We went straight to the MEPS building, as some of us needed to take the ASVAB (I did).  After the test, we waited for everyone to be done and then we took the shuttle to the hotel.  Everyone from every branch of the military goes through the same MEPS- I ended up rooming with a Navy shipper (she was shipping to Navy's basic training the next day).  When we checked in we got a meal ticket for dinner, and the hotel let us refill our drinks- which is good because my recruiter told me to drink a lot for the urine test the next day (no caffiene or sugar).  More on that later...  There was a suite of rooms that were adapted especially for the MEPS people- video game room, huge tv (where we all watched a short video on MEPS), and movies to pick from if we wanted.  Curfew was 10:00 pm as we had an early start the next day- up at 4:45 for breakfast and bus to MEPS at 5:45 am. 

I'll say this now:  I felt really old!  Most of the people there were fresh out of high school, though there were some older people there that were joining different branches of reserves or guard, or some were switching branches. 

Day 1 was when I took the ASVAB test- the Armed Services Vocational Aptitude Battery test.  This is what (mostly) determines your job qualifications in the military.  I had purchased a book to study and review- I thought I would do terrible on the electronics and mechanical sections, but I did alright!  I didn't find out my scores right away- I texted my recruiter and he told me the score (99QT!) so I went to sleep happy. 

The next day was the full battery of tests, exams, paperwork, and questions questions questions.  When we arrived, we lined up, checked in, and went to get our files from the respective branch offices.  We started out with a briefing, where they scare you and fill out a whole bunch of paperwork- PAY ATTENTION.  There are lots of directions and everything is in ink- don't make them make you redo a whole form.  We had 3 people do that.  After briefing, you go on to medical.  Leaving the room you do a breathalyzer test, then bloodpressure, eye test, hearing, blood samples, etc.  The night before, we were told to "have" to go to the bathroom to make that process easier... but they don't make that the first thing you do.  One poor recruit waited about 3 hours. You then carry your paperwork around to have the various tests completed and recorded: you get your ears, eyes, every other aspect of your body (yes, I mean EVERY)... checked.  Those you do seperately- the medical people will call you.  In a group, you will do a hearing test in "the box" and then the physical mobility check where you are all (males are seperated from females) in your undies and do a range of motions, including the infamous duck walk.  I don't know about the men, but ladies- don't be shy.  It's no big deal and not that bad! It is freezing in the room, but that's the worst of it.  The hearing test freaked me out- not so much being in the small box (there are 4 stools with seperate headsets and clickers), but because everyone starts at different times.  I was worried that I missed mine since I could hear someone else clicking away! 

I then had to check on taking the DLAB test- for some reason I wasn't pulled to take it early so I was able to take it after medical once I ate lunch (yes, they feed you!).  That was an... interesting test to say the least, but I did well.  The Air Force liason told me my score of 123 and my jaw dropped.  I seriously thought I bombed that test. 

I guess there is one more point about MEPS to make. I spent the morning concentrating on getting through and talking to the other females* as many were much younger than me and hadn't experienced all the fun exams before like I have. (Heads up to male readers- it's about to get personal for a second.) For some women, MEPS will be the first time they have to stand in a room in a group with very little clothing and many haven't had a full exam before, either. It is really not invasive at all- more of a check to make sure you are, in fact, female and that everything is healthy-looking. There wasn't a female doctor at the Des Moines MEPS when I was there, but there is a female nurse with you at all times. Don't worry about how you look- everyone is just there to get through it. Oh, and make sure you wear clean underwear and nothing exotic (which your recruiter will tell you). Also **female issue alert** if it is "that time of the month"- plan ahead. There is a length of time that you are wearing nothing but paper robes (two).

Once you are done with medical, you usually start to talk jobs meeting one-on-one with the liason- this probably differs from branch to branch, or it depends what stage you are at.  We also were taken back one by one for "processing"- someone asks you all the questions that you've gone over with your recruiter when you filled out the paperwork.  Throughout MEPS they will tell you if caught enlisting fraudulently, you can face 5 (I think) years in prison and a $10,000 fine.  Over and over.  It can be nervewracking- but hopefully your recruiter prepares you well.  For me, that process happened quickly, though I had to go hunt down some paperwork (always check in at the desk!!).  Back in the liason's office, we went over the job listings and contracts... then I waited to be sworn in!

The swearing in ceremony was the highlight of MEPS- there was a group of us that all went at once.  We stood at parade rest and attention when a Marine Major (I believe he was major) came in and gave a speech and had us swear in.  Some recruits had family members there, but I was glad mine weren't because I'd have been in tears (I know- bmt will get that right out of me!).  That was when I knew I made the right decision- it felt exactly as it did when I graduated from Saint Mary's College, so something must be right!

After that, guess what?  More waiting!  This time we were waiting for the shuttle home.  My family surprised me when I did get home, that was really nice.  Sometimes your recruiter is there to debrief you- I met with mine a few days later.  I am glad to be done with that process, though I didn't think my experience was as bad as my recruiter made it out to be.  Maybe because I'm older- a lot of the younger people were really anxious, especially in the physical exam portion.  I even got the grouchy front desk lady to smile at me :)  If I had any advice- I'd say listen, be polite/respectful, and if in doubt, stop at the front desk! 


*In the Air Force, boys and girls are referred to as males and females- I'm not sure if they do it to seem more respectful, but it could be to remain professional.

The Recruiter Experience

I remember being on airforce.com and being so nervous about contacting a recruiter. I searched for the nearest recruiter, then clicked to another screen. I searched again, and then went to the BMT videos. One last time: I found the name of TSgt. Attig and forwarded the contact information to my email, then proceeded to stare at it for a couple of days. I eventually got up the nerve to actually send an email to ask for an appointment to talk about the Air Force. When I did go in, my step-sister was kind enough to come with me.  I was beyond nervous, but felt better once I began listening to what TSgt. Attig had to say.  I took a practice ASVAB test and scored an 85- I was pretty happy with that- haven't taken any type of test in years!  Went over some info about jobs, and enlisting vs officer/dual applications.  When I left I got a folder :)  well that made me happy.  I like to process information- the fact I had a booklet full of information excited me.  What can I say- it's the nerd in me.  I did start thinking about jobs- but everything depends on the score you achieve on the ASVAB. So I researched and began to think about possibilities and whatnot. Lots of fun for me! 

Well, I took that packet home and poured over it and made list after list after list.  I called to have one more meeting and the moment I started talking I knew the decision had been made.  All of my questions were about when I'd leave, what kind of scores I'd need for certain jobs, and things about BMT (basic military training).  I went right home and finished (yes, I had already started without thinking) filling out the application to bring back to my recruiter.  Oh, the hassles that lay in wait for me! 

I knew this already, but if you ever want to know just how large your family is, fill out an application for the military.  Goodness!  Then I had to remember dates and places of where I was in Europe for school (did the best I could!) as well as every other bit of information about my life.  I've never felt so bad about my speeding tickets (all more than 3 years old, thank you!).  Lots of medical history- and realizing how lucky and healthy I was- circling and initialling and denying and explaining... very thorough forms!  Also- if you are interested in joining the military, DON'T MOVE!  EVER!!  Just kidding, but do keep track of your addresses and when you lived where! 

After my recruiter had everything entered, he then ran a credit check, but we went ahead and planned for my visit to MEPS, thinking all would go well.  Oh, that credit check.  Of course, I had a flag- an unpaid bill that had gone to collections!  I tracked that baby down before my recruiter was in the office the next day.  I was charged for something I never had done, but they had sent the bill to an old address so I never got it to fix (as I told the billing lady- I'd hope I'd remember having bloodwork done).  I went ahead and paid it so I could go make a statement at my recruiter's office.  Meanwhile, the medical office is doing their own check and find out they had billed the wrong person all along.  So back I go to get a letter stating that fact.  MEPS had drizzled away- I now required the ok from a commander to be able to go and my recruiter tells me that the oh so necessary commander is on vacation for the next week.  I held it together, but later had a meltdown- it was a frustrating day.  (I'll take the time here to say how much I appreciate the office ladies of Genesis Health Systems in Bettendorf- and the woman who wrote my correcting letter has a son in the military, which is why they rushed it all for me.  Thank you!!!)  Oh, and yes, I was reimbursed for the bill that I paid. :)  I spent a lovely long day with my recruiter getting everything together to send off to the commander for approval- now it came down to waiting. 

Things were finally approved the next week- earlier than I thought!  MEPS was just around the corner!

First of many... I hope!

I've thought for a long time about starting a blog.  Now, I realize it may be important once I do leave to stay connected.  Sure there is always Facebook and texting, but this will also have a journaling aspect since I don't need to carry one of those around, too! 

As of June 2013, I have enlisted in the US Air Force.  I have been to MEPS, did reasonably well on the ASVAB and the DLAB and aspire to be a linguist to serve my country while continuing my love of learning.  Many people support my decision, and are even proud and thrilled for me and I greatly appreciate that.  Other friends had to get used to the idea- but I know I have their support.  The benefits are great- education, $$, good quality of life, health insurance (I have to admit- I'm excited about that one!), but those aren't really why I joined.  Yes, I began seriously considering joining when all of those came in to question with my current position as a college advisor reducing hours, but that was more of a catalyst and the benefits are more like perks for me.  I NEEDED a life change.  I feel I have been doing the same thing since 2009 when I graduate college- I haven't been challenged, been struggling paycheck to paycheck, and, quite frankly, I'm tired of living like that.  I've considered the Peace Corps, and a few other options, but they didn't really stick.  The Air Force didn't even seem realistic when my step-mom first brought it up, but then I started researching more and a lot of the values and principles struck a chord with my own.  The Air Force will provide the direction I'm looking for, and help my personal development.  I'm excited about the challenges and possibilities- I've felt so lost and slothy until I met with T.Sgt. Attig and I had to get things done! 

(image from deviantart.com)

 

When I have more time, I will go into more detail about my experiences with recruiting/MEPS/enlisting and all of the decisions I have come across.  I'm looking forward to sharing what I can.  I've found some blogs (www.aimhigherin.com) and youtube videos (aimhigherin, Kyle Gott, and several videos from different people/services) that have been extremely helpful in the process so far.  I hope one day to be helpful to others in the same position!